Sexual Inadequacy
Sexual inadequacy is when both partners show a dysfunction or sexual disorder that leads to the breaking of the couple´s harmony .
The ideal sexual relation should involve not just physical part of sex but emotional ties and connection as well .
Many times due to lack of experience , twisted views on sexuality , religious repression or childhood trauma may lead to feeling of sexual inadequacy .
Many times there simply isn’t sexual compatibility between partners : one may prefer sex in the morning and the other prefers sex in the evening ; one partner may prefer one position that the other partner hates ; one partner may need at least 40 minutes to be satisfied and the other partner cannot go beyond 10 minutes of sex .
All of this carries a strain in the relation and may lead to conflicts even if these things are not outspoken ( the couple may fight over the laundry but the real issues are often in bed ) .
Modern life also contributes to a feeling of sexual inadequacy : today we are subject to more stress , more chemicals , more pollution and more work than ever before .
Many times couples seem to find it difficult to match schedules that fit them both and when one partner is ready for sex , the other has an important meeting to attend to in the morning.
If a couple has kids this puts even more strain to the relation and finding the time to make love may seem ever so hard .
But as strange as it sounds , there might be situations where a couple is not considered inadequate sexually , even though they might be seen inadequate individually .
For example if a men has impotence and the women is frigid there is no inadequacy has a couple ; if a men has premature ejaculation but the women can quickly reach orgasm , there is no inadequacy ..



